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[suki_blue]

~waves~

Hello!!

I've been a little absent from LJ again. I've popped in now and again to post HR chapters, but apart from that, and a small amount of LJ skimming, I've mostly been asleep.

I've been feeling a teeny weeny bit blue and that just makes me mega tired.

L read my letter explaining my reasons for not wanting to be her friend anymore and she went completely and absolutely off her nut. She phoned into work on the Sunday to complain to our manager and she only suceeded in proving that she is indeed a very sick woman that needs help fast. Anyway, to make a long story short, due to her reaction to my letter and a few other factors, she has been suspended from work and will not be allowed back until she has received treatment. I asume this means that she'll be going away for a while.

This is a great relief for me. This last week has been just awful and I felt so terrible that my letter caused all this. But my manager and HR have said that I did her a favour with my letter. It pushed her and brought out the severity of her illness. Now everyone can see what I saw and even she has now apparantly admitted that she needs help.

So, the storm has passed for now. L is getting help, the atmosphere in the office is so much better and I'm changing my mobile and mobile number. My new pink phone should arrive tomorrow! Yay! Pink! And to make top off all this goodness, I have a week and a half off work! Squeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Comments

[sweet-exile.livejournal.com]

They're right. Sounds like your letter was the catalyst that brought out the true nature of her illness. I know it doesn't seem like it now but I feel you did the right thing. Your friend is going to get the help she needs. You are a friend.

A pink phone? Why!!? I recently bought a new phone. I can only imagine the look on my face when the sales assistant pointed out a pink phone. I don't do pink!

[suki-blue.livejournal.com]

I do keep trying to tell myself that. Maybe I did do the right thing. But did I do it for myself or for her? I think I did it for myself.

I love pink! It's just a colour that seems so suit me...along with brown. When I went window shopping for the phone at O2, the sales assistant asked me if there was any particular reason that i had to have that particular phone. I said: "Yes, because it's pink."

And when he asked me if there were any other reasons I said: "Yes, because it's pink."

He think he thought that I was a tad loopy!

[tabaqui]

*hugs*
Hey, glad things worked out for the best!

Pink phone!
:)

[suki-blue.livejournal.com]

~hugs~

yup, things are on the up!

I can't wait for my pink phone! It's just so...pink!

[kmousie.livejournal.com]

I think I did it for myself.

And that's just fine...you made sure that you'd stay safe, and she gets help as well. I'm glad it's worked out that way. I've been praying for you, and it's nice to see you back. :-)

Yay pink phones!

[suki-blue.livejournal.com]

Thanks, luv. It does seem to working out now; only time will tell for sure. I'm keeping my fingers crossed.

~does the happy dance of the pink phone~

[kmousie.livejournal.com]

I'm keeping my fingers crossed.

As will I. :-)

[amejisuto.livejournal.com]

Don't feel too bad about who you did this for luv, because it's working out well for the both of you. You, more than anyone else, know how badly she needed help and now she can get it!

And yay for pink phones and long holidays! MWAH!

[suki-blue.livejournal.com]

Thanks, sweetie. I know you're right. and I do feel so much better about everything.

Double yay for so many exciting things!!!!!

[blue-icy-rose.livejournal.com]

It's true. You did do the right thing, especially if she's going to be getting help now. I'm glad that things seem to be working out...and yay! New phone, no work...a much needed break from the sounds of it!

(As for the LJ thing, I'm right there with you...I took time to read a couple stories and then take a quiz. LOL)

[suki-blue.livejournal.com]

Yeah everything seems to be working out for the good. I hope it stays that way.

Yup, no work, new phone, first time watching S5 Ats and lots of Spander to read. I'm in heaven.

[lunabee34.livejournal.com]

Suki, I'm sorry this whole situation has been so shitty for you, but I'm glad that things are out in the open about this woman's mental health. It's good that other people know how damaged she is, too. It helps protect you and everybody else.

*hugs*

[sweet-exile.livejournal.com]

He'd be right then but we still love you for it. I am so not girly. I bought my phone because it had an MP3 player and a cool camera.

[suki-blue.livejournal.com]

You sound like my friend big_balls!

I have to say, I'm half girly and half not. It can be a very strange combination!

[suki-blue.livejournal.com]

It has been awful and it's been bringing me down for a long time. But I feel better about things now. I finally feel like I'm in control; that's very important for me.

[sweet-exile.livejournal.com]

Very interesting LJ username.

[suki-blue.livejournal.com]

That used to be her nickname at work. I'm not really sure how she got it!

[sweet-exile.livejournal.com]

Sometimes it's best not to ask.

[reddwarf75.livejournal.com]

*peeks in* Just wanted to say 'Hi' :)
marie

[suki-blue.livejournal.com]

Hello, luv. Hope you are well. ~hugs~